It is a fact Moving is the third most stressful life event, following death and divorce. We all can remember the wedding or funeral, but the house warming party always takes the back seat. Before your next move take a minute and look at why it can be that way. We move for many positive reasons such as a new promotion, home, or family. However, our lives are turned upside down when we enter a complete new environment, community and culture. The family life changes as we leave our routines, friends, schools and associations behind for new ones. Try convincing a child he must leave everything behind, I myself would have had to be dragged kicking and screaming. It is easy to understand why moving is traumatic, but very difficult to accept. Without familiar things to identify who we are, we often feel alone and out of place in a new community. Culture shock can help be avoided by researching our new cities and towns and preparation. United Van Lines has an Excellent “Neghbourhoods” package for every major city, listing popular schools, parks, organizations, landmarks, and night life. Ask your abbeyWood move planner for more information, resources and discount offers in your new community.
In the meantime the following suggestions may help make the move less stressful – and save you from needing a bottle of aspirin on the big day.
Prior to the Move• Be Prepared – Advance planning and organization will make your move go smoother. Keep all documents related to your move in one, easily accessible location. Use a folder, notebook, or even a daily planner to keep track of important phone numbers and documents. Referrals for new physicians, maps of your new town and contact information for old friends are just a few more things that you may want to stash in your organizer.
• Makin' a List – Make a schedule of appointments to turn on and off your electricity, gas, water, cable and other fundamentals for your home. This is also a good time to do some online research on your new community. Make notes about restaurants and other places in the area.
Name the Place – Label each box with the name of the corresponding room. You can write directly on the box or to make it even easier, print out large computer labels and stick them to the box.
• Let Them Know – Fill out the United States Postal Service change of address form six to eight weeks prior to your move to make sure you receive your mail when you relocate. The form can be found at www.usps.com/moversguide/welcome.htm. And make sure you let the IRS know, too. A change of address form (Form No. 8822) is available on their Web site (www.irs.gov).
On Move-In Day• Small Wonders – Try to keep children occupied. Have coloring books or other toys readily available to fill the children's time while the movers are bringing items into the home. Ask if your new neighbours have children that your children can play with during this time or if they know of a babysitter that would be available to help out.
• Fuzzy Friends – If you have a pet, put him/her in an isolated room with food, water and bedding. Post a note reminding everybody to keep the door shut; otherwise, your pet could get injured or even lost.
• Home Sweet Home – Begin by opening boxes that you will need first, such as ones that contain necessities like paper towels, trash bags and light bulbs. The easiest way to recognize these boxes is to mark them with a bright colored sticker or a special notation that makes them stand out from the rest. Take care of the bathroom and bedrooms first, and then move on to the kitchen and other living spaces. Keep a trash bag in every room, so packing materials can be discarded as you go.
• What's Cooking – Trying to fix a meal while still unpacking causes undue stress. Take this chance to find a new and different place to eat, or if you are feeling homesick, find an old favourite and enjoy a meal. If you don't feel like going out, c heck your new telephone directory for restaurants that will deliver or look back to the list you made from Internet research before you moved.
After Move-In
• Get Involved – Time, effort and courage will help you integrate yourself into your new community.
Remember...it's a gradual process, but your patience will be rewarded in the long run. Go for a drive, walk or bicycle ride to learn your way around and meet your new neighbors and see your new town.
• Join In – Look for clubs that match your interests. Running, reading, sewing…there are unlimited possibilities of organizations that can help you meet people in your new community. Check the local library or grocery store bulletin boards for notices of meetings. Don't forget that children's sports leagues, churches, and other parts of your life in your old community will still be available in your new one.
• Keep Smiling – Make sure you have “me time” everyday. Take a moment for yourself to figure out what you need to feel better during this emotional time. And, try not to sweat the small stuff. Remember that it is OK to miss the way things were, but take time to appreciate the new things in your life. Staying positive and keeping an optimistic attitude will help you adjust to your new home more quickly.
(Moving is rated as the third most stressful life event according to reports by the American Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry & Employee Relocation Council to name a few.)
Condo's can also make your local moves more expensive due to long walks. For example if you plan on moving into 360 Bloor St. E. townhouses at the back there is an extremely long walk for movers. This is further complicated by traffic/parking restrictions on Bloor St. If you pay your movers by the hour be prepared to bite the bullet at this location. On the plus side the townhomes have a stunning view of Rosedale from their spacious balconies. 
The key point here is to take height restrictions and long walks into consideration when planning your next move. It will save unnecessary expenses or stress from doing it right the first time.
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